February 24, 2020

Oh The Fun Of Getting Divorced In Absentia

After Dearest Blue Eyes ghosted and left the country with his new source of narcissistic supply, he was essentially untouchable. Yep, he was securely tucked away with his old love on another continent, safely hidden among a billion people in India, with no known forwarding address or verifiable contact info. Lovely. Free Bird Has Flown The […]

Tempted By The View In The Rear View Mirror?

You Can Never Go Home Again At one time or another, I think we all get tempted to revisit our pasts and reopen old wounds—even when we know we shouldn’t. In 2014, a good three years after my husband left, I did just that. I was still living in my home state of Ohio. I’d […]

Excuse Me, While I Wax Sentimental Over My Empty Bank Account

I’m Not The First & I Won’t Be The Last Without going into all the details here, my husband ghosted me. It’s not uncommon for abandoning spouses to clear out what had formerly been ‘joint’ bank accounts when they leave. My husband was one of those runaway spouses who did this. But I’m not bitter […]